Dulled Knives; Sharper Palettes
In the West we fetishize the knife as a weapon of war, destroyer of meat, measure of athletic prowess, a symbol of manliness. We think nothing - maybe even brag - of spending hundreds of pounds on a good quality chef's knife or a set of steak knives. The fork or spoon does not receive the same veneration. It's often said that ‘you are what you eat’; in which case may I extend the anology to ‘you are how you eat’ and propose that Western culture is not afraid to say: I am Alpha, Carnivorous, Warrior Man.
A nation's relationship to cutlery reflects their cuisine. In East Asia chopsticks and spoons (sometimes no spoon at all) suffice, since most dishes require pre-cutting of ingredients into small, uniform pieces. Chopsticks are used to lift, lever and sometimes unceremoniously shovel food into the mouth. Lifting a bowl to slurp or assist in aforementioned shovelling is acceptable, encouraged even. In South East Asia a spoon and fork is preferred, perfect for navigating a staple of rice, soups and wet dishes.
And then there are some eating cultures that dispense with any cutlery at all. I have always been slightly envious watching how Indians maneuvre their way around a banana leaf, or the deft way in which Thais neatly roll sticky rice into a ball with just three fingers.
Watching kids eat is fascinating. No matter how you encourage them to eat 'properly' with a fork, their natural instinct is to use their hands. What's so bad about eating just as every other animal on earth does?
I have made a resolution to experiment more with hands-on eating - and not just where burgers and fries are concerned, of course. The simplification of an already basic human need brings us closer to the source.
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Further reading
The Vedic wisdom behind eating with hands (everydayayurveda.org)
Mindful eating with your non-dominant hand (breakingmuscle.com)
A guide to eating with your hands around the world (cntraveler.com)